Feelings versus Reality

Yesterday, I met with my Kindergarten Team and we talked about teaching kids to say the word, “slug slowly” so they would hear all the discrete sounds embedded in words. This discussion ended with me, searching for videos of slugs (yuck, but the kids will like it). This got me thinking about where I’m at in my weight loss journey. Bet you couldn’t see that coming, wink wink.

Everything is going in the right direction, but my weight loss feels slow. That, and the challenge of feeling a bit hungrier lately, are making my journey feel like walking uphill. I’ve always prided myself on being an “uphill kind of girl.” When things get rough I put my head down, and… m o v e. In this case, the way to move past this phase of the journey is to take a closer look at my feelings.

When I start using words like, “feel” I know it’s time to look at my data to see if my feelings are in check with my reality. It turns out, they are not. My data shows I’m very consistent. Knowing this, and being able to prove it to myself is a relief. I’m so glad that I made friends with the scale because I know myself, I could have spun these “feelings” into a full-on why bother negative talk fest.

Beware self-sabotage when you’re on a weight loss journey. Sometimes you may feel like your moving, “slug slowly” but really, you’re doing the important work that needs to come first if you want to reach your goal. Keep it together, and just keep moving forward.

4 thoughts on “Feelings versus Reality

  1. Not just weight loss, this process of just dragging yourself on the journey just showing up each day everyday is important no matter how low on motivation you are this discipline of showing up and moving with it even if the change is miniscule is what will show you results in any aspect of life. A cup is not just filled by the last drop of water you pour into it but the number of drops that came before, stay on track 🙂

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  2. Not just weight loss, this process of just dragging yourself on the journey just showing up each day everyday is important no matter how low on mi motivation you are this discipline of showing up and moving with it even if the change is miniscule is what will show you results in any aspect of life. A cup is not just filled by the last drop of water you pore into it but the number of drops that came before, stay on track 🙂

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  3. I get it! I’ve maintained over the last 2 weigh ins but I know my meal planning lately has been sh** and I’ve had this need for an evening snack. Time to jump back in to the feelings!

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